Thursday 24 March 2011

Children misbehave themselves after coming from school as they are tired and hungry. Here are some tips to stop this misbehavior


Many mothers are complaining that their children misbehave themselves after coming from school. There is a reason for this behavior. Children have to work hard at school. Because of their business much energy is spent from them. They are so tired and hungry, when coming from school. They come in different moods also. They will be in happy mood, if they get good marks in their lessons or they are admired by their teachers. They will be in sad mood, if they get poor marks in their lessons. They will be in an angry mood, if they have problems with their friends or with other children.

When children are hungry and tired, they create many problems. They may shout for every thing; they may quarrel with each other or with you; They may untidy up the room; they may make big noise; They may be disobedient. They may show poor eating habit. These sort of behaviors can create unpleasant and critical situations. As you are also a busy and tired mother, you may also loose your temper.

Here are some tips to solve this problems and make a pleasing situation:
  • Tidy up the house to give them feel happy and relaxed after coming from school.
  • Arrange the dining table with colorful nutritional lunch. Add one or two of their favorite dishes.
  • Have lunch with them. Don't engage yourself with any other works.
  • Encourage them to speak out about their experience at school. Don't criticize their faults and mistakes. Comfort them, if they are sad. Admire them for their success and good behavior. Give positive advices to solve their problems. Meal time is not a time to correct the children. It should have full of happiness. Give enough time to have lunch. don't hurry them up.
  • After the lunch make them to do their school home work. Some children like to do their home work all alone in their room. Some children like to do it at the dining table with their mother or father. Declare that a quite time. They need time to regain the energy, which they spent in school.
  • After their home work let them have a rest. At the same time you can also have some rest. Explain them that you are tired and you need some rest.


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